Don't Use Work ID in Personal Ad

Here is why I show you what happens to those that use their work email id as part of their personal ad.

Though this seems trivial and pretty much basic, and though this dating tip focuses on something that no one in their right mind will do, I felt I must state the obvious: when you create a personal ad, use your personal email id and not the one you use at work.

Why Not?

1. Your work will object. One of the main reasons for not doing this is that your job might (and most probably will) object. The email id you received from work has been given to you for professional and work-related purposes only. It resides on a server that belongs to the company and thus is also open to all those wish to read and scrutinize it. And if you are getting angry, remember: the work computer, email and everything you use belongs to the company and they have the right to check whether anyone is using their equipment for other purposes.


2. Privacy: When you use your work email id, not only will everyone else get to know who you are, but they will be able to locate you without any trouble. Do you really want all kinds of nasty men or women troubling you? Another thing to take into account is that your co-workers might stumble onto it and then ridicule you. Why should you even take that risk?

What will happen if I use it anyway?

If your job finds out, you will most probably get fired!

And that's exactly what happened to a young woman who used her work email in the personal ad she posted where she advertised that she was looking for someone to father a child with her. The location: the auditor's office in Thurston County. The young girl posted this personals on Craigslist and unfortunately for her, the County office found it.

What a Hot Personal Ad Can Do

How many times have you heard or read on the internet that if only you wrote a fantastic personal ad, you would get hundreds if not thousands of responses? Well. Someone did exactly that, and now not only did they get thousands of responses (though not exactly what they were looking for), but their personal ad was forwarded again and again by millions of people through their own email.

It all began when someone, (since until now – no one knows if this was fake or there really is a beautiful woman behind the ad) published a feature on Craigslist where she said that she because she was extra-ordinarily sensationally pretty and that she was only twenty-five, and that she was interested in receiving marriage proposals from only those men who earn more than half a million a year because she wishes to stay in the posh Central park West.

Then, someone who picked her post up from one of the blogs, replied back and called her request a bad investment deal. The man replied that since she was twenty-five and that since her beauty would start to falter with each year, while his ability to make money would only improve, her proposition was not sane if looked on in a business set of thinking.

Someone sent it to someone else and soon this exchange turned into a hot emailed item being sent again and again all through cyber space. What made this go around more than usual was the fact that it seemed legitimate because the man answering the girl's offer had replied using his own name: a manager from the investment house, JPMorgan Chase.

The said person denied that he was the sender but it just goes to show how you can gain popularity for your personal ad by writing an outrageous one.

Student Posts Racist Personal Ad

I have to say this upfront. I just picked this up from the web by using Google News and going to the following page:

http://feministing.com/archives/007753.html

But if it is true and this is not a fabrication, then I have to state that the personal is not only in bad taste, but also very racist. It is also odd that Feministing.com didn't see fit to mark that out as well!

But if it is true and this is not a fabrication, then I have to state that the personal is not only in bad taste, but also very racist. It is also odd that Feministing.com didn't see fit to mark that out as well!

Sure, Jessica (http://feministing.com/jessica.html) was quick to point out that the ad posted by a Harvard senior was "amazingly gross" but when I read her concluding comments, I couldn't believe it. Jesica states that the personal ad is "funny sad. But better"

Jessica, are you serious. Is that all you can come up with to say when coming across such a Racist ad? The ad is not just "fucking pathetic." What about the line right there at the end where it says, No Asian!

Or should I just not bother because you aren't into that stuff?

For those who have no idea what I am talking about here is the text of that personal ad:

My final club has a reunion this fall, and my relationship of two years ended disastrously earlier this summer. I have an invitation for myself plus one, and am willing to show you a great time. It is a private party, in an extremely classy setting. There is no real way to describe how ornate the club is, but I guarantee that it will be the most upscale experience of your life. Think back to your high school prom, take away the terrible music, and multiply the experience by ten. You must be white, 5′6″ - 5′9″, young, blonde, attractive, and intelligent. You must be in school, preferably Tufts or Wellesley but BU and BC are acceptable (definitely not MIT). You should be able to hold a conversation, know when to be quiet, and polite in all your behavior. I have seen unruly guests embarrass members before, and I hope this won't be a problem. This event is black-tie, and I am willing to procure an evening gown for you. I hate to sound so harsh, but I have expectations to live up to. No Asian, overweight, or unattractive women please. Ages 18-22 only.

How to Attract Chinese Women Using a Personal Ad

China has always been one of the main users of personal ads in order to find meaningful relationships, but the writing in them has changed through the years. Modesty is still a predominating factor but girls that read your personal ad are looking for some of these factors:

1) Do use modesty but hide certain factors that were once nonexistent in a Chinese personal ad such as wealth and education, but you have to do this tactfully. You could say something about your job without mentioning the actual salary or something about a car without actually stating it outright. You could say that one of your hobbies is going for long drives. (Get it?)

2) Mention that you have a degree but without condescending on those who do not. You could state that you began to like Jazz (for instance) when you had to listen to is as part of your Doctorate at the Indiana State University.

3) That leads to the third factor and this is sometimes very important to some Chinese girls and women: location. If you are anywhere in the United States or Europe then you have a really good chance of getting answers from the prettiest Chinese girls because most want to stretch their legs out of China.

4) State your nationality openly. Most Chinese women prefer Chinese and there is no point in keeping it secret. Even those girls who don't mind would get offended if you didn't state it out openly.

5) Honesty is another trait that is looked for in men by Chinese girls. So do write this down but please don't if you are not. If you can share something moderately intimate about yourself. Chinese girls like this.

6) Add a picture of yourself that complements you! Don't think that beauty is not important to the Chinese. It is. So find the picture where you look the best and use that only.

7) Tradition is also very important to most Chinese girls so write down a few sentences on how important tradition is to you. If you can, elaborate on what you think tradition is and why it is important to keep them.

8) Detail also your quest for self improvement and how you are faring in that subject. You do not have to be a guru, but Chinese girls like men who have a spiritual side to them.

Why Sexy Babes Use Personal Ads?

One of the main reasons that beautiful and luscious girls (such as the one in the picture) use a personal ad to find love and/or boyfriends is that even though they receive many hits and many requests from boys and men, they can delete those that do not interest them.

Beautiful women also sometimes suffer from a syndrome that makes them want to be noticed. Have you ever observed a dashing young woman walking down the street shaking her behind more than is necessary? Or have you noticed a young pretty girl swishing her hair about to catch attention? Exactly! By posting an attractive picture of themselves, they feel great when the boys go Ga Ga.

The feeling of opening their online dating account and then noticing that there are hundreds of interested men just begging for a chance, is so intoxicating that sometimes these women never really date. They go on switching snaps and pictures of and on just to entice more and more responses.

What Can You Do With Such a Personal Ad?

1. Call their bluff. Send them an email saying that you think they are ugly. Believe me when I say this: they will respond.



2. Instead of trying to get the attention of those beautiful girls that have posted enticing pictures in their personal ad, pick out the truly beautiful women that are not trying too much to get your attention.

In any case, mark the personal ad of a beautiful woman, and return off and on. You will not be disappointed.

Hot Personal Ad Profiles

You Can Find Beauitiful Personal :
It is very easy to find few of the many really hot girls that you could find all over the internet by looking at the personal ad sites. What I was amazed to find out is that the internet dating scene is no longer the abode of only those who cannot find dates regularly. (Like me!)

Attractive men (for all the girls out there – Not for ME!) and hot girls are also going online and signing up to the many different internet dating sites. Then, they create a personal ad and start browsing all the different profiles to find love.

Love!
So popular yet so difficult to find. I am sure that most of the wonderful and beautiful girls and boys that create a personal ad on any internet dating site do not really need it just to meet people. But, this allows them to hope that they can bypass the regular croons and crooks that assault them whenever they set foot out of the door. And what they really want, are seeking and also mention it in their different personal ads is love!

So, I also want to find love. Lets all pray that each one finds love (But, me first!)

Free Personal Ad Sites - Reviews

Why Should You Pay for Adding Your Personal Ad? Or, for that matter, why should you pay to look at the personal ads of others looking for love and relationships?

I understand that the dating sites need to earn money somehow, but why can't they advertize and take money that way? I'm sure that there are many sites that offer free services, and I intend to seek these out.

Return to this personal ad review site - I will sign up at each any every one of those dating sites and will review them for you.

I already have one that I am reviewing - so come back soon - I'll have that one up for you as well as how to use your personal ad to get love, dates or whatever else you wish.